Learn how to kiss a guy – step by step guide
If you’re wondering how to kiss a guy, you should know first that there are many ways to kiss a guy well, but if you’re enjoying the kiss and enjoying the guy, there are no wrong ways to kiss.
In other words, even if you’re not a master, you’re also not bad. But we can understand the desire to do it better, to be a great kisser. There are few tools in a woman’s sexual arsenal that are more powerful than a really great kiss. Learning how to kiss a guy is about preparation and confidence.
Step one of how to kiss a guy: Get prepared
If you think you might be lucky enough to get a kiss at the door after a date, or you want to improve your chances of being kissed by your beloved, consider preparation.
Before the kiss, make sure your breath is fresh and that you are acting like you are prepared for a kiss.
Look into your partner’s eyes, which sends a message that you’re ready to be kissed and you want to be closer to him. When you look into your partner’s eyes, look for some sign in him that he’s ready to be kissed as well. One of the most uncomfortable situations arises when one of you is ready for a kiss and the other isn’t, so it’s important that in this first step, you make sure you are both communicating the same message.
At this point, you might also want to smile a bit which also sends the message that you are feeling close to him, that you are feeling friendly towards him and that you want him to know you’re ready to be even closer to him.
Step two of how to kiss a guy: Make sure you read the situation correctly
You don’t want to proceed if he’s showing a lack of interest. Pay attention to what he’s looking at. If he’s interested in you, he’ll be looking at you, he’ll be focused on you, but if he’s looking away, looking at someone else or rolling his eyes, you have a problem. Learning how to kiss a guy is as much about the kiss as knowing when to proceed and when to back off.
But assuming that he is interested in kissing you, you’ll want to continue being prepared. Move a little closer to your partner, so there’s no awkward straining with the two of you trying to reach each other for the kiss. Touch him on his waist, his arm or his face. This sends a clear message you are ready for the kiss.
Step three of how to kiss a guy: Move in
At this point you want to make sure your lips are relaxed, that your eyes are closed and that you are moving in slowly towards his face so that you can kiss each other. You want to make sure that your head is tilted gently to the side or you will bang noses or chins or foreheads and all of that is awkward and uncomfortable.
Don’t press your lips together. You don’t want your partner to kiss pursed lips. You want him to feel your lips gently parting on his which makes it a softer and more intimate kiss. It’s best if you’re not wearing lip gloss or lipstick. But do moisten your lips gently before you kiss a guy. You can do this with your tongue or if you’re out, you can take a small drink of something to make sure your lips are slightly moistened.
Step four of how to kiss a guy: Kiss him!
As you’re moving in for the kiss, make sure again that your lips are parted and keep your jaw tension-free. Keep your tongue in your mouth. This isn’t about French kissing; this is about a gentle, lip-on-lip kiss.
To create an ideal kiss focus on kissing either his top or bottom lip. If you’re kissing his bottom lip, then he’s kissing your top lip and vice versa. If you kiss full lip on full lip, you’re really heading more toward a French kiss which we’ll talk about soon.
You lips should be gently parted, but they are focused on his lips and not his mouth or tongue. If you’re enjoying the kiss, pull away for a bit. Look into his eyes and decide if you both are ready for more. If so, you can continue kissing this way or you can move in for a deeper, or French, kiss.
Step five of how to kiss a guy: French kissing
If you have never French kissed a guy before, then the idea of your tongue touching or intertwining with someone else’s tongue might seem strange or uncomfortable. But if you want to learn the best techniques for how to kiss a guy, you need to learn the French kissing technique.
If you want to initiate a French kiss but aren’t sure how to , the best tip we can give is that you part your lips gently, and bring your tongue right to the front of your month until it touches the guy’s lips or tongue. Don’t jam your tongue into his mouth but be very gentle about it and if he’s interested, one of two things will happen. Either his tongue will already be in position to receive yours, or the feeling of your tongue at his lips will tell him that you’re ready to French kiss and if he’s ready, then he will also move his tongue to the front of his mouth.
If you get a cue that he’s go for French kissing, then you can move your tongue in a little further, but don’t jam it in, don’t be fast, and don’t move your tongue in and out quickly. All of these things are sure to give him ideas that might make him change his mind about wanting to French kiss you.
If your partner is responsive, then you can move your tongue slightly, and even run your tongue gently over your partner’s lips and play with each other’s tongues. This is really an art form and although most of us can give a basic kiss with little to no experience, learning how to kiss a guy French style is definitely something that will require a little bit of practice.
If your partner is a bit more experienced, he will guide your tongue gently to the proper movements and the proper positioning. If both you and he are novices, you can learn together. You can also discover what you like and don’t like. Some people will like a much more passionate thrust of the tongue while others will like more gentle delicate tongue play.
Learning how to kiss a guy is as much about being ready to give and receive as it is about the details of the kiss. You should be able to gauge a situation well and be willing to change your technique or approach if something’s not working. Once you feel comfortable, you’ll know the answer to the question of how to kiss a guy – relax and have fun!
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